The Duality of the Masculine and Feminine

Dear Reader,

As we move through each week of our newsletter we are planning on exploring a wide range of topics as they pertain to understanding your experience for life and ways that you can think about things to improve upon your current situation.

This week we decided to touch on relationships and wanted to give an overview on some of the misconceptions we see often.

To begin…

There is a duality amongst masculinity and the feminine that allows for powerful cosmic collisions of energy

It operates outside of gender as a spectrum for men and women to cultivate energy

For men and women, to be the their most magnificent self, they need to be striving for their respective poles of the spectrum:

The Masculine and Feminine

A more masculine energy will attract a more feminine energy

That degree will result in the vitality of the relationship

For the masculine, it is difficult to embrace feminine energy

Most modern men can't handle it

The majority shy away from it, forcing the counterpart to take on a less feminine (and more masculine) role

Thus you begin to treat your counterpart in the same way you would treat a mate at the pub

Less conflict initially? Yes

But the weakness this embraces is detrimental in the long run

For you, the man, this results in a painful way to live

A lack of masculinity undermines your value in the household

It creates a discomfort among the feminine who feels unsafe and distrustful

You will weaken

Your dreams will pass you by

There is light however.

You can elevate the world and people around if you embrace it

But you must learn…

1. Commit to your purpose.

With no purpose you become a weaker version of yourself

You lack the self-discipline to navigate the sea of life and it is eventually acknowledged

In most cases, men allow relationships and other engagements to be the excuse for not pursuing their purpose

It may seem like you are doing the right thing on the front, sacrificing yourself for the ones you love, but over time it does just the opposite

If you lack purpose, the feminine will feel a need to fill in for your lack of masculine energy

She will be forced to take control of items that she inherently doesn't want

In turn, this will disrupt the flow of your relationship

If you do not have the internal drive of purpose, everyone in your life will consistently test your capacity to stand your ground and you will lose

Do not be ambiguous in your intent

Choose what you want and pursue

2. Become an interpreter

The feminine may speak words that do not have truth in the literal sense

But they are not untrue

More often than not, they are pushing a reflection of a transient feeling-wave

The true masculine vision sees through layers of conversations

He understands her feminine speech as far more like poetry than a sequence of problems with solutions

An evolved masculine spirit is not a bully nor a wimp

He is open to the world for how it is

He is calm through all storms and has no need for comfort

He is an interpreter of the feminine and also devotional in effervescent love

3. Embrace your divine gift of decisiveness

The feminine longs for the faith in the masculine decision to be able to relax into love

This will be tested time and time again, but it is a truth

If the feminine asks an opinion of you - be decisive in why you think so

Regardless of if she agrees with you or not, she will respect you on a subconscious level for being firm in your decision

Saying you do not care weakens the polarity between you and the feminine

In truth, the feminine is like a flower. It needs to be nurtured for it to bloom

It needs a pillar of masculinity to rely on

Just as the masculine needs the feminine to test them

You are bound to this duality in your relationships

Fleeing from tests of the feminine spirit will neutralize the energy

- You will become less masculine

- Your relationships will suffer,

- You will end up a shell of a man

We must all embrace this duality in order to succeed in our relationships

With Respect and Devotion,

The Fairway Destiny Team